Showing posts from January, 2018


I did not want you to go down on my list, But you have even gone farther than that
I have never thought you will live without me, But you have done well in that
I am not sad with the sight I am witnessing, Just trying to find myself in some corner of that
The place where still you think of our memories, With shine in your eyes and hope in your heart
That we will be together again in this way or that

The Power of Efforts

Why are we not succeeding? Why our inputs are not giving us the required outputs? Why is it that we are pursuing our dreams but still on the same page of the life? All these questions lead to only one thing, “whether we are making enough efforts?” Whenever we are not getting desired results then it is the time when we need to check our strategy. We need to assess the proficiency of our efforts.
 When we are not getting what we want then it means following things:-

1.    Problem:- This is not our chosen path. We have been forcing ourselves on it or someone else is forcing us to follow it. All of these things will lead to emptiness. Solution:-  Human beings have a beautiful gift and that is to make their own decisions. We can create our own path. Chose your goals, whether they are small or big. It doesn’t matter. Take your time and plan it.
2.    Problem:- We are copying some person. We want to be like him/her. Solution:- God has made us unique and there is no need for two copies of the same …

Don't Judge Others

Why people judge somebody so quickly? It is very hard to find out what turmoil is going inside a person. The one who refuses to whine about petty issues is always the one considered as a stubborn person. Well, in most of the cases, it is not so. Some people chose not to show their feelings to others. It is also the case, that person is fighting hard for the survival and shut oneself from the outer world. They try to pull themselves from the wounds of past or their complexities. Do not misunderstand them as cold-hearted people. All they need is some time and some space to find out the solution to their problems themselves. We came across many people who say that they do not care about certain things or people. We quickly judge them by thinking of that person to be egoistic or arrogant without knowing the cause of that behavior. It might be possible that their expectations or their dreams had been shattered in the past and they are no longer in position to trust that particular thing or…

Learning is the Key

            Learning is the only way that can keep you alive in the monotonous world. 

Learning .. ⇒

Today I noticed, the more you indulge in taking care of yourself, the more you feel positive. Taking control of your life and your happiness will make you feel empowered throughout the day. I have too much on my plate to do like making green tea in the morning, making healthy breakfast, doing makeup, getting ready for work, taking care of dear ones, writing a blog, learning new stuff regularly, getting a daily dose of news and much more. Although these are the small things still sometimes I have felt out of control. Even the little things in our life need to be taken care of.  So, even if you think it is tiny, start taking charge of it because achieving bigger starts with the small achievements. One cannot be at the top of the game in just a click; it takes lots of hard work and planning. Thus, it is your habits that make you a person you ever want to be. So, if you are in line with your habits then the possibility of enjoying the life you want increases. For example, I want to lead a…

Meaning of Satisfaction

Satisfaction is when you close your eyes and you can see what you have achieved so far and how positive your achievement has made you. That positive energy gives a beautiful smile on your face, which brightens your day and your nights are peaceful. Do not confuse this word with the materialistic things. It is just a state of your mind where you can convert all the negative vibes coming your way into positive ones. No matter how people treat you, how they discourage you, you are on your own and won the game with your calm mind.  Do not bother much about what people are saying and what they will think of you. Their karma will give what they deserve and you will get what you deserve. So, keep doing positive things and keep smiling.

Five things to do in a Day

We have been so much engulfed with the aims and objectives of the life, and when we cannot fulfill our dreams, we often feel frustrated. This happens to each and everybody at some point in time. What can we do about it? I guess, we cannot change the things as they are but we can modify them a little.

Here are five things out of my schedule, 

1.    Wake up early to buy yourself enough time to make your breakfast by yourself. Make something tasty and healthy for yourself. This will helps you to feel independent. It might be a small thing for many but it is a big step towards taking control of your life.

2.    Next thing you can do is to dress nicely so that when you look into the mirror, you should feel proud of yourself. There is no need to go overboard but dress as per the occasion. Work magic with the colors, this can make you feel more lively.

3.    Make a to-do list and stick to it. Keep on crossing the things that you have done in the day, and revisit your list after regular inter…